Finding Love
9 cardsCategory: Love & Relationships
A spread for those seeking their love and wanting to understand the path toward it.
Overview
This spread is suitable for single people interested in their personal life prospects. At the same time, it works well at the early stage of acquaintance, when there is a desire to 'probe' the possible quality of further relationships.
Spread Diagram
Card Positions
Who You'll Meet
Who the querent is destined to meet (or what the new acquaintance is like).
Love and Care
How much this person will love and care for the querent.
Potential Problems
What kind of problems may arise in further communication.
Social Status
What this person is like as a professional, in social terms.
Sexual Relations
The nature of sexual relations in the future.
Emotional Relations
The nature of emotional relations or their degree of seriousness.
Worldview Differences
Possible worldview differences.
Financial Situation
Potential financial situation.
How to Win Them
What to do to win this person over, if the previous cards promise good.
How to Read
Shuffle the deck while focusing on your personal life. Draw 9 cards. Card 1 at the bottom — who you'll meet. Card 2 above — love and care. Then cards 3 and 5 on the sides, 4 and 6 closer to center. Cards 7, 8, 9 at the top. Read bottom to top: first the partner's portrait (1), then relationship quality (2–6), then differences and finances (7–8), and finally — advice (9).
Tips & Advice
Card 1 gives a general portrait of the future partner — pay attention to the suit and element of the card. Cards 5 and 6 (sexual and emotional spheres) should be read together — they show how harmonious intimacy will be. Card 9 is a guide to action, but only if cards 1–8 are generally favorable. If most cards are negative — perhaps it's worth waiting on this acquaintance.
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