How We See Each Other
6 cardsCategory: Love & Relationships
Reveals the true attitudes of partners toward each other and toward love.
Overview
This spread can be performed alone or together with your partner to reveal the true attitude toward each other and your love.
Spread Diagram
Card Positions
How A sees B
How partner A perceives partner B.
How B sees A
How partner B perceives partner A.
What A wants from love
What partner A wants to get from love and this relationship.
What B wants from love
What partner B wants to get from love and this relationship.
How A sees development
How partner A thinks the relationship is developing.
How B sees development
How partner B thinks the relationship is developing.
How to Read
Shuffle the deck and draw 6 cards. Lay them out in two rows of three. The top row (1, 3, 5) — partner A's perspective. The bottom row (2, 4, 6) — partner B's perspective. Compare cards in vertical pairs: 1 and 2 — mutual perception, 3 and 4 — desires, 5 and 6 — vision of development. Matches indicate harmony, contrasts — points of tension.
Tips & Advice
If doing the spread together with your partner — let each person draw their own row. This makes the process more personal and candid. The key pair is cards 5 and 6: if both see the relationship developing differently, this is a signal for an open conversation. Cards 3 and 4 often reveal hidden needs that partners don't talk about.
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