Arcanum ten needs financial ground under its feet. Not luxury and not wealth — precisely the sense that there are funds of one's own that do not have to be negotiated with anybody.
This is not greed, and not a readiness to walk over other people. It is simply that a common pot with no personal share in it acts destructively on arcanum ten: when money goes off to places nobody can account for, the footing it loses is not only financial.
The practical conclusion for a family: a person like this should have their own part of the budget, one they do not report on. That releases more tension than any amount of talking.
And the reverse: an income of one's own matters more to arcanum ten than the size of the income. A dependent position with large sums is harder for it to bear than a modest amount that is its own.
