The April task is to work through the male line of the lineage: the fathers, the grandfathers and what was left behind them.
What is at issue is heavy: force that was used, what was taken from others, decisions that other people paid for. An April person carries this not as guilt but as work — it falls to them to put right what was done by the men before them.
In practice this is most often visible in the relationship with the father. It can be tense, and the conversation runs up against something neither of the two ever started. Breaking it off solves nothing here: the task is fulfilled through repair, not through leaving.
It is fulfilled by the person not repeating what they are working through, and by their becoming a support where there was none.